Friday, December 30, 2011

goals....resolutions....hopeful outcomes...

oh i don't know what to call them.

anyway, things i want to achieve/do/have happen/whatever word you want to use in 2012...

* have this baby! the agent is really hoping it comes on his birthday i think. which is january 4, our due date. so it'd be pretty cool if it did come then, and shared it's birthday with it's daddy! and also it's cousin. january 5 and it'd share it's birthday with it's grandfather, the agent's dad.  just soon....i'm a bit over the pain it gives me when it sits in a certain way and is right on one of my nerves. it HURTS!!

* i want all of us to have breakfast together every morning of the week. dinner is not viable, as that time of the evening is best for the agent to be making calls and seeing clients. we've tried him coming home and then going back to work, but he still loses time at the office and as much as it was nice having him home for that short while, i think it upset bubble and bug when he left. so i'm voting we cut out the whole 'dinner as a family' thing the agent's mother seems to insist on us doing and we do 'breakfast as a family' instead!

* i want to remember people's birthdays and send them cards! as much as i agree with my mum - cards can be a complete waste at times - it is nice to receive them. i've bought myself a wall calendar, and have written family birthdays in it already. not everyone, just immediate family. the $2 shop has great cards for all occasions, and for less than $2!! bargain! will stock up on them next time i'm at the shop, so as i have the cards on hand and ready to post out!

* bubble and bug will be going to daycare 2 days per week, same as last year. i have decided i will relax about the state of the house on the days they are here. so long as it is liveable and safe, i am going to aim to enjoy them. if they make a mess, so what? the days they aren't here i'll clean like a demon. they both had so much fun being outside with my MIL, their new big bubble wands and a bucket of water. i want to do that. i feel as tho i don't 'play' with them enough. so in 2012, i'm going to make that change. i will play with them more. sure i will have to focus on lbm3 as well, but i'm not going to forget my girls and leave them to their own devices. i haven't been able to interact with them as much cos of this beach ball on my front, so i look forward to being in there, in the action with them again.

* i want the agent and i to have a date night, at least twice a month. more if possible. he wants the same thing too. i know cos he told me! as he said, we may not go out but we'll still spend time together, doing something without the kidlets. well, except for lbm3 for the first few months!

i think the rest of the things i hope to achieve i will break down in to separate posts....such as health and fitness, family, money, career (dare i dream?!)...

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